Where My Thoughts Become Yours

What You Starve, You Strengthen Hunger gets a bad reputation. Everyone’s always trying to satisfy it, to fill it, to escape it. But I’ve learned that hunger is one of the most powerful things a person can hold. When you starve something, you don’t destroy it. You sharpen it. Every ache becomes awareness. Every denied…

Phoenix’s Rule No 5: Pleasure Demands Presence Pleasure is not something you stumble into. It’s not luck, or accident, or a brief reward for surviving the week. Pleasure is a skill. A discipline. A practice. It demands that you show up for it, fully. And yet, so many of you wander in and out of…

The Gospel of Goon There’s a moment in every good session when thought stops. When the chatter quiets. When all that’s left is breath and pulse, raw, rhythmic, endless. That’s gooning. It’s not just about overstimulation. It’s about surrender. The mind dissolving into the motion. The body becoming an altar. The repetition becoming prayer. You…

Micropenis Monday: A Love Letter to the Smallest Men There’s something sacred about smallness. Not weakness, smallness. The kind that forces you to pay attention. The kind that turns a single inch into an entire story. Every Monday, my inbox fills with a familiar mix of nerves and curiosity. Tiny confessions. Photos cropped just enough.…

The Woman Who Doesn’t Chase (She Draws You In) There’s a kind of power that doesn’t need to reach for anything. It sits quietly in its own gravity, and the world rearranges itself to orbit closer. That’s the woman I’ve become. The one who doesn’t chase. The one who simply is. People think attraction is…

Phoenix Rule No. 4: Worship Is a Two-Way Street Worship isn’t about bowing down. It’s about the current that moves between us when you look, breathe, listen, want. When I talk about worship, I’m not talking about distance. I’m talking about the pulse that starts in your throat when you hear my voice, the shiver…